{"id":13695,"date":"2017-11-09T19:58:57","date_gmt":"2017-11-09T19:58:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/?p=13695"},"modified":"2017-11-13T20:32:17","modified_gmt":"2017-11-13T20:32:17","slug":"13695","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2017\/11\/09\/13695\/","title":{"rendered":"Second therapy appiontment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>On Thursday I had my second therapy appointment. I called the insurance company before and realized I would be covered if I switch therapists, so Thursday was my last time with this particular therapist. I really liked her and learned a lot in our two sessions.<\/p>\n<p>My mind did wander a little at points and I should have asked her the non-therapy related questions that kept coming through my head. This is what they were: &#8220;Where do you buy your jeans? And who cuts your hair?&#8221; I wanted to ask her these questions because she had a build larger than mine (although I win for how much body is currently attached to said build) and she looked\u00a0<em>great<\/em>. I can never find jeans that fit my large hips and waist, but somehow she had great fitting jeans. Perhaps the reason I can&#8217;t find jeans relates to the fact that I don&#8217;t even try on jeans when I am my current size&#8230;perhaps I should work up the courage and try sometime.<\/p>\n<p>And also, my hair stylist moved and the last person I tried butchered me. Normally I can live with bad haircuts, but this one was truly horrible and I am scared to go to someone else lest I end up with something even worse. Anyway, this therapist was Latina and had hair similar to mine. As I said before, she looked fantastic so I really wanted to figure out who did her hair.<\/p>\n<p>I should have just asked her the questions. I mean, I was paying for her time, so why not? I don&#8217;t know why I didn&#8217;t ask, but since I didn&#8217;t, she filled the time teaching me all sorts of things about behavioral triggers and how to avoid building emotional walls that numb you to pain around the triggers. I wasn&#8217;t sure that this lesson actually applied to me and my problems, but I appreciate the information anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s how the board looked at the end:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-13703\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/IMG_6806-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/IMG_6806-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/IMG_6806-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/IMG_6806-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/IMG_6806.jpg 1632w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On Thursday I had my second therapy appointment. I called the insurance company before and realized I would be covered if I switch therapists, so Thursday was my last time with this particular therapist. I really liked her and learned a lot in our two sessions. My mind did wander a little at points and &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2017\/11\/09\/13695\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Second therapy appiontment<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13695","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13695","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13695"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13695\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13705,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13695\/revisions\/13705"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13695"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13695"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13695"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}