{"id":1408,"date":"2013-11-20T05:32:25","date_gmt":"2013-11-20T05:32:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.darais.com\/?p=1408"},"modified":"2013-11-20T05:32:25","modified_gmt":"2013-11-20T05:32:25","slug":"entering-the-fray","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2013\/11\/20\/entering-the-fray\/","title":{"rendered":"entering the fray"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Recently there was<a title=\"https:\/\/www.ldsmag.com\/article\/1\/13519\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ldsmag.com\/article\/1\/13519\"> an article<\/a> written by a bishop in Meridian magazine about modesty, and it has gotten a lot of attention. Thus far, I have been following the internet scuffles from the sidelines and hashing out my own thoughts with Abe, God, and my scripture journal. Today I finally decided to add my own two cents to the fray and commented on Alison&#8217;s blog,<a title=\"http:\/\/www.mormonmomma.com\/index.php\/2013\/mormon-mother-daughters-ysa-bishop-intimacy\/#comment-89389\" href=\"http:\/\/www.mormonmomma.com\/index.php\/2013\/mormon-mother-daughters-ysa-bishop-intimacy\/#comment-89389\"> Mormon Momma<\/a>. I thought her response was the best one I&#8217;ve read so far, and since she said in some of the comments that she wasn&#8217;t sure how modesty should be taught, I suggested correlating purchasing power with our charge to care for the poor.<\/p>\n<p>She wrote back and asked me to do a guest post on her blog, and I am so excited to have an excuse to delve into this topic further. I have a lot of my own faults and issues that keep me from seeing this particular issue completely clearly, but I do have a strong desire to study God&#8217;s word and discern, to the best of my ability, what I think is His counsel on the subject.<\/p>\n<p>I am also scared to death. As far as I can tell, no matter what anyone says on this subject, scores of people are bound to vehemently disagree. But oh, well. I&#8217;m just trying to figure out the issue myself, and I guess the benefits of hearing other people&#8217;s viewpoints in internet discussions will outweigh the bad stuff.<\/p>\n<p>In other news, we had a great play date with Lalitha and Eden this morning. Actually, Lydia spent most of it begging me to read her books, and I kept rebuffing her request and admonishing her to go play with Eden, so maybe it was just a great play date for me.<\/p>\n<p>I also got over two hours of practice in and realized that I am almost at the point where all of the pieces I&#8217;m playing at the competition are(very roughly) put together. Abe suggested I (re)memorize them all, and I agreed with him. The only problem is, when you&#8217;re already playing passages that are twelve years deep in your rote memory, it gets really hard to memorize them in a more stable way.\u00a0 So we&#8217;ll have to see how it goes.<\/p>\n<p>I also spent a lot of time trying to iron scheduling snafus out with the program director at the Art Institute. It is extremely frustrating and I can&#8217;t type any more because I am getting all tight and irritated, so let&#8217;s just conclude by saying I have a meeting with her tomorrow, and hopefully it will get straightened out then.<\/p>\n<p>Also, I had a great discussion with my AWESOME sister-in-law; she told me to go see a gastroenterologist, so I get to make that fun appointment tomorrow. I am so, so thankful my brother married such a great woman.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, I have some homework for school, so let&#8217;s post these pics and get a move on, shall we?<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1414\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1414\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5202.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1414\" alt=\"Breakfast ponytail. Recent discovery: Mary loves Chex!! Woo-hoo!!\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5202-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1414\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Breakfast ponytail. Recent discovery: Mary loves Chex!! Woo-hoo!!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1415\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1415\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5207.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1415\" alt=\"So does Lydia!\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5207-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1415\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">So does Lydia!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1416\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1416\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5208.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1416\" alt=\"Lydia during her play date. Maybe all that pre-play date Elmo ennervated her. Also, she's lucky I didn't take this shot when she had both pointer fingers up her nostrils (one per nostril). We're degressing in the nose-picking department.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5208-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1416\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Lydia during her play date. Maybe all that pre-play date Elmo enervated her. Also, she&#8217;s lucky I didn&#8217;t take this shot when she had both pointer fingers up her nostrils (one per nostril). We&#8217;re regressing in the nose-picking department.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1417\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1417\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5209.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1417\" alt=\"Eden was interactive, but Lydia has picked up Abe's and my bad habit of acting like lying on the floor is actually playing.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5209-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1417\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Eden was interactive, but Lydia has picked up Abe&#8217;s and my bad habit of acting like lying on the floor counts as\u00a0 playing.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1418\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1418\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5218.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1418\" alt=\"Everyone clapped for Mary with every bite she took at dinner. We are resorting to drastic measures to get her to eat.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5218-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1418\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Everyone clapped for Mary with every bite she took at dinner. We are resorting to drastic measures to get her to eat.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1409\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1409\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5220.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1409\" alt=\"Lydia dressed up Mary in this outfit.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5220-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1409\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Lydia dressed up Mary in this outfit.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1410\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1410\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5229.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1410\" alt=\"Mary seemed to like it.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5229-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1410\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Mary seemed to like it.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1412\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1412\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5235.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1412\" alt=\"Then Lydia dressed herself up.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5235-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1412\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Then Lydia dressed herself up.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1413\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1413\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5237.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1413\" alt=\"Another shot of Lydia.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5237-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1413\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Another shot of Lydia.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1411\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1411\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5233.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1411\" alt=\"Last one.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/IMG_5233-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1411\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Last one.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recently there was an article written by a bishop in Meridian magazine about modesty, and it has gotten a lot of attention. Thus far, I have been following the internet scuffles from the sidelines and hashing out my own thoughts with Abe, God, and my scripture journal. Today I finally decided to add my own &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2013\/11\/20\/entering-the-fray\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">entering the fray<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1408","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1408","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1408"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1408\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1408"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1408"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1408"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}