{"id":14701,"date":"2018-02-21T17:51:29","date_gmt":"2018-02-21T17:51:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/?p=14701"},"modified":"2018-02-25T18:11:58","modified_gmt":"2018-02-25T18:11:58","slug":"paternity-day-our-last-ever-unless-we-adopt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2018\/02\/21\/paternity-day-our-last-ever-unless-we-adopt\/","title":{"rendered":"Paternity Day! (Our last ever, unless we adopt.)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After Abe and I worked out, Clarissa woke up and Abe, instead of hurrying to work, got to play with her instead.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14663\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7399-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7399-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7399-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7399-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14662\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7398-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7398-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7398-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7398-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I scheduled a pediatrician well-check for Clarissa while Abe was home. I sent him to the doctor with both Clarissa and Ammon, who has cheeks that flare up bright red alarmingly often.<\/p>\n<p>Abe reported that the doctor&#8217;s visit was a smashing success. Clarissa is right on track, Ammon&#8217;s red cheeks are nothing to worry about.<\/p>\n<p>Ammon is very friendly and makes the most of his limited vocabulary. He enthusiastically greets and bids goodbye to all of his &#8220;friends,&#8221; and when he cried &#8220;GOODBYE, DR. SIMMONS!!&#8221; with a giant grin on his face and an enthusiastic wave of his hand, the nurses went crazy. Abe said they all wanted to take him home.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14686\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7663-e1519573182777-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7663-e1519573182777-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7663-e1519573182777-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7663-e1519573182777.jpg 1224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While he took the kids to the doctor, I visited a neighbor&#8217;s house and collected a lot of beautiful, free books. She&#8217;s giving away her amazing collection. I tried not to be too greedy because there are lots of people who wanted books, but I did fill two bags.<\/p>\n<p>After school Lydia did Mary&#8217;s hair. Mary LOVED it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14687\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7665-e1519573171111-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7665-e1519573171111-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7665-e1519573171111-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7665-e1519573171111.jpg 1224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14688\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7667-e1519573160139-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7667-e1519573160139-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7667-e1519573160139-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7667-e1519573160139.jpg 1224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14689\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7670-e1519573146525-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7670-e1519573146525-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7670-e1519573146525-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7670-e1519573146525.jpg 1224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I made her take the bow off before her piano recital in the evening, and that made Mary sob. In retrospect, I wish I had just let her keep it. After all, who cares, right? I will try to learn from this incident so I can make more compassionate decisions in the future.<\/p>\n<p>Also, she got her scores from the competition back! She got 97\/100 pts! Abe and I were so proud. I have a picture of her score paper and judge comments on my phone. When I find my phone, I&#8217;ll post it here.<\/p>\n<p>Clarissa has been constipated, so we have been feeding her prunes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14690\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7687-e1519573134829-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7687-e1519573134829-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7687-e1519573134829-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7687-e1519573134829.jpg 1224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14692\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7705-e1519573107969-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7705-e1519573107969-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7705-e1519573107969-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/IMG_7705-e1519573107969.jpg 1224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Abe and I were so, so sad to have this day end. I actually felt a sense of loss knowing he would have to go back to work after this incredible stay-cation. We have enjoyed each other&#8217;s company and the company of our children so much. It&#8217;s been heaven.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After Abe and I worked out, Clarissa woke up and Abe, instead of hurrying to work, got to play with her instead. I scheduled a pediatrician well-check for Clarissa while Abe was home. I sent him to the doctor with both Clarissa and Ammon, who has cheeks that flare up bright red alarmingly often. Abe &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2018\/02\/21\/paternity-day-our-last-ever-unless-we-adopt\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Paternity Day! 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