{"id":149,"date":"2012-02-03T03:56:55","date_gmt":"2012-02-03T03:56:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.darais.com\/?p=149"},"modified":"2012-02-03T03:56:55","modified_gmt":"2012-02-03T03:56:55","slug":"lesson-learned","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2012\/02\/03\/lesson-learned\/","title":{"rendered":"Lesson learned"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Somebody had a birthday, and it wasn&#8217;t Lydia or I! Abe turned 28 on January 28th, and since he couldn&#8217;t be home that day, he took us with him to Moab. We spent three days there, and we didn&#8217;t go hiking once. Instead, we lazed around the hotel..<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_152\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-152\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-019-Optimized.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-152\" title=\"Late Jan- early Feb 2012 019-Optimized\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-019-Optimized-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-019-Optimized-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-019-Optimized-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-019-Optimized-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-019-Optimized.jpg 1350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-152\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Lydia explored the room thoroughly. Here she is trying to figure out what&#8217;s under the closet door.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<dl id=\"attachment_156\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\" style=\"width: 310px;\">\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">and ate all too frequently at Pasta Jay&#8217;s. On Abe&#8217;s birthday, we actually considered eating lunch AND dinner there, but <del>we<\/del> I was too embarrassed. That would mean we would have patronized their restaurant three times in less than 24 hours, and the wait staff would have judged us.<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<figure id=\"attachment_150\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-150\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-001-Optimized.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-150\" title=\"Late Jan- early Feb 2012 001-Optimized\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-001-Optimized-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-001-Optimized-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-001-Optimized-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-001-Optimized-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-001-Optimized.jpg 1350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-150\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Lydia helps Abe open one of his presents at lunch.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>But even though we didn&#8217;t go there for dinner, we stopped by after dinner to pick up a piece of their to-die-for cake. Seriously, I&#8217;ve never had a better piece of cake&#8211;and I don&#8217;t even really like chocolate cake! Give me carrot anytime&#8230;except when this is around:<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_151\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-151\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-023-Optimized.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-151\" title=\"Late Jan- early Feb 2012 023-Optimized\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-023-Optimized-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-023-Optimized-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-023-Optimized-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-023-Optimized-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-023-Optimized.jpg 1350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-151\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">It looks like a triple mouse, but it isn&#8217;t. No, it&#8217;s better. (did you think that was even possible? &#8216;Cause I sure didn&#8217;t&#8230;)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_158\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-158\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-021-Optimized.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-158\" title=\"Late Jan- early Feb 2012 021-Optimized\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-021-Optimized-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-021-Optimized-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-021-Optimized-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-021-Optimized-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-021-Optimized.jpg 1350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-158\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Lydia helps her daddy blow out the candle. Well, actually she just sucked her binky ferociously while Abe blew out his own candle, but she provided moral support.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>When we got home, my mom came over for dinner. As she and I were prepping, we heard Abe exclaim that Lydia was climbing the stairs. We rushed out and saw this:<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_156\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-156\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-031-Optimized.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-156\" title=\"Late Jan- early Feb 2012 031-Optimized\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-031-Optimized-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-031-Optimized-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-031-Optimized-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-031-Optimized-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-031-Optimized.jpg 1350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-156\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">So proud of herself!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I should have known this was bad news, but it was so cute and fun that I didn&#8217;t think ahead like I ought to have. Specifically, I should have realized then and there that we need baby gates, and I should have made an immediate run to Target for them. Instead, I just applauded and cuddled Lydia for being cute. And today I learned my lesson. It started out with a mess:<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_154\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-154\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-033-Optimized.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-154\" title=\"Late Jan- early Feb 2012 033-Optimized\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-033-Optimized-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-033-Optimized-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-033-Optimized-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-033-Optimized-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-033-Optimized.jpg 1350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-154\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">After pulling everything off the shelf, she&#8217;s on to bigger and better things&#8211;like our full trash can!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Lydia returned to this mess after dinner:<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_155\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-155\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-043-Optimized.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-155\" title=\"Late Jan- early Feb 2012 043-Optimized\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-043-Optimized-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-043-Optimized-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-043-Optimized-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-043-Optimized-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-043-Optimized.jpg 1350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-155\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">stripped down to her diaper, Lydia sorts through her earlier work.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>And since she was going to bed shortly thereafter, I thought I could get away with quickly cleaning the mess before she went down. At that point, Lydia had moved on to her stuffed lady bug (or so I thought). Not thirty seconds after I start cleaning the mess, I hear a BOOM! and then a loud wail. Lydia had fallen down the stairs.<\/p>\n<p>After I rushed to pick her up and ascertained that she was miraculously okay (thank you, guardian angels!), all the worst-case scenarios played through my head. Right now, I am feeling intensely grateful to God for looking out for my daughter, and I also know the first thing I&#8217;m doing tomorrow: buying baby gates.<\/p>\n<p>And to celebrate Lydia&#8217;s new, safe space, I am going to use up the very last one of these:<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_153\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-153\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-026-Optimized.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-153\" title=\"Late Jan- early Feb 2012 026-Optimized\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-026-Optimized-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-026-Optimized-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-026-Optimized-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-026-Optimized-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Late-Jan-early-Feb-2012-026-Optimized.jpg 1350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-153\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My Auntie Geri sent me these luscious lemons from her backyard tree in California. Aren&#8217;t they gorgeous? Thank-you, Auntie Geri!!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Somebody had a birthday, and it wasn&#8217;t Lydia or I! Abe turned 28 on January 28th, and since he couldn&#8217;t be home that day, he took us with him to Moab. We spent three days there, and we didn&#8217;t go hiking once. 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