{"id":1539,"date":"2013-12-02T05:34:13","date_gmt":"2013-12-02T05:34:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.darais.com\/?p=1539"},"modified":"2013-12-02T05:34:13","modified_gmt":"2013-12-02T05:34:13","slug":"farewell-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2013\/12\/02\/farewell-family\/","title":{"rendered":"Farewell, family =("},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today was Clark and Swathi&#8217;s last day in Utah. I am so sad they are gone, especially since while they were here we had in-house babysitters all the time. Abe and I both took two hour naps today and trusted that Lydia was in the greatest possible hands while we were zonked out.<\/p>\n<p>And tomorrow my mom leaves, so by tomorrow night I will feel completely bereft. We will even see less of Balu than we have over the past weekend, simply because he will be gearing up for finals. <del><\/del>I guess I should not mourn the future and instead focus on how great this past weekend with my family has been. Today I didn&#8217;t even have to cook since Balu and Swathi cooked some amazing Indian food&#8211;and Swathi even baked a pecan pie for us all. It was delicious.<\/p>\n<p>Aside from napping all day and nursing a crazy headache, I had a wonderful visit with my visiting teacher, Erica Bowen. It&#8217;s amazing how uplifted a good visit can make me feel, and her insights and experiences buoyed my faith and happiness quite a bit.<\/p>\n<p>I also loved just chatting with my family after we put the girls to bed. It was so fun to do nothing but sit around and talk for two hours. I love my family.<\/p>\n<p>Since my headache is not getting any better and I still have a lot to clean, let me just finish and post the pictures of the day.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1546\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1546\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5490.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1546\" alt=\"This is Abe feeding Lydia and Mary. This system looks strange but is surprisingly functional.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5490-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1546\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">This is Abe feeding Lydia and Mary. This system looks strange but is surprisingly functional.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1545\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1545\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5488.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1545\" alt=\"Swathi's rice. I don't have a picture of Balu's awesome chicken, but it was beautiful!\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5488-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1545\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Swathi&#8217;s rice. I don&#8217;t have a picture of Balu&#8217;s awesome chicken, but it was beautiful!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1543\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1543\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5482.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1543\" alt=\"Swathi's pie. Yum.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5482-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1543\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Swathi&#8217;s pie. Yum.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1542\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1542\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5478.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1542\" alt=\"Lydia eating dinner #1.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5478-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1542\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Lydia eating dinner #1.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1541\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1541\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5471.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1541\" alt=\"Our attempt to capture a gorgeous sunset. \" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5471-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1541\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Our attempt to capture a gorgeous sunset.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1540\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1540\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5468.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1540\" alt=\"Swathi and Balu in the kitchen.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5468-e1385962071927-682x1024.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"960\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1540\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Swathi and Balu in the kitchen.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1544\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1544\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5484.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1544\" alt=\"Balu with Clark and Swathi's Black Friday purchase (the iPad air).\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5484-e1385962048387-682x1024.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"960\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1544\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Balu with Clark and Swathi&#8217;s Black Friday purchase (the iPad air).<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1550\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1550\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5521.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1550\" alt=\"Tom, Suzanne, and Jere stopped by after dinner, just in time to take our pictures.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5521-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1550\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Tom, Suzanne, and Jere stopped by after dinner, just in time to take our picture,<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1548\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1548\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5516.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1548\" alt=\"Clark and Swathi with their nieces. \" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5516-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1548\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Clark and Swathi with their nieces.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1549\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1549\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5517.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1549\" alt=\"Mary pulled Lydia's hair -- maybe to try to get her to look at the camera??\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/IMG_5517-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1549\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Mary pulled Lydia&#8217;s hair &#8212; maybe to try to get her to look at the camera??<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today was Clark and Swathi&#8217;s last day in Utah. I am so sad they are gone, especially since while they were here we had in-house babysitters all the time. Abe and I both took two hour naps today and trusted that Lydia was in the greatest possible hands while we were zonked out. And tomorrow &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2013\/12\/02\/farewell-family\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Farewell, family =(<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1539","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1539","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1539"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1539\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1539"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1539"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1539"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}