{"id":19031,"date":"2020-02-20T19:07:00","date_gmt":"2020-02-20T19:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/?p=19031"},"modified":"2020-02-22T19:30:43","modified_gmt":"2020-02-22T19:30:43","slug":"goals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2020\/02\/20\/goals\/","title":{"rendered":"Goals"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One of the things that Lily for which was most grateful about our trip to Bora Bora was the fact that she got to spend a lot of time thinking about how she wanted to spend the rest of her life and she made a lot of goals. Below are a list of some of the things included in her life roadmap that she thought about:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Doing Richard Rohr&#8217;s living school (with me!)<\/li><li>Writing a memoir<\/li><li>Getting a PHD in Art History<\/li><li>Learning languages to prepare for her PHD<\/li><li>Investing in the children and spending time with them<\/li><li>Drinking deeply from the fun stage the kids are in<\/li><li>Maintaining good health<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lily was still very tired and sick today and woke up late, but I stayed home a bit later than usual so she could still get her workout in. I was happy to do it, not just to be helpful to my sweetheart, but also because I was still hungry for time with the kids after being gone for so long. After getting the kids ready, I snapped some photos. I had fun with Clarissa&#8217;s hair and got a photo of her spike. I didn&#8217;t even need product to make it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/uNLn46wNk8ya_a-pkOfFyj3LCB05ulne8pkOcy1tONllpuziiW0z4Z881pA5CjWv3Q0hdqf5vBHWcea3rZYdoV24WMoa6MlY0K73RSlHHt0fRlobcRSSENzW972fwGOnOXlRuBIjvx8=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=gvj6voiH5S0\">Goat Yoga <\/a>is super in right now, but I wonder if the next big wave will be toddler yoga. Lily had to modify her positions because of Clarissa, but it sure was cute!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/5sDc_Vh4Ddn7rM-FPt3Pgei-i8DcOheBJGPfI0IL24jzgbpN9yGMpeeygFU-hwxrIqZwFoD0UMro908_GgJPWD7RBu0phnk2mBfZT0O_A6B0vgw-uu-BBofSslzhFTRyT3uvbFjtxqo=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/FmoHPQrdXzKx42wnmA5e_wxgv6TYnYtiWzqC-en9mo6EJFzIH13MZHmLg_ALrbiS0rInJQbY6crwkpXz0XfHhEjWHQLJVW6J9KHQOt7FsyyX7Y6ijVcAufQtNhjtYMh-5rjJeXjzblU=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/KV1BgpkFxmJcIfM25eHFIOvF4Ieq6oBNCzYNH78z-LbmrPctLXa4KatZw-ee00aG582pVurDMtmySuagFzchzNIbMDK1ylc7tl5Vdqx1EXg5uDxL4_CKzxOd8HD-bf6qIIvi82EzV4U=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While I was a work, the kids had a dance party. <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/6kBs4J7Td3A\">Here is a video.<\/a> They kept trying to pick each other up. Here is the apex of all of the picking people up, haha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/Jjvh67hg36TB3IcA9Euu0BRh3scgPqMqcEoH9F1WySPm1if5U1d-4dZ-pHE7jq-rkBHrSMZOkNAoAwCOYiX4VLb9mTsT_HqSSABadUOdONwR-xX41C8JQynLFCzObxVQK-p37ze4Skk=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/wQga50fsi6_AeKGY347et6O3bO05BZyKE6qml5sZUZbenHXH_x8o2GUnIRba3jiA-kl9lC_aX5GD07_KXE9BYvRVHyViO6rYRMqjlbMeOY736rDBXa_KjAip26TKq4W2vYFDmPWnwqo=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After work, we focused on more goals. Lydia made a goal with Lily to read 120 books, after which she would get a trip to Build-a-Bear. Lydia made a chart to track her progress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/tkt9upOVG0p-vM-VAhlubcTso5ChRq_9EqC5mX4ELtbwPsRVt8vtQ1mKXpiferAM646h0gigPmltk5avCmdZqnRYXKolSNRiAu5gid2-EEWHcdOzBE7Xf8x7o3JMwFdgu8Yb_QZTkl4=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here is Lily in my favorite color on her. It brings out the yellow in her eyes and I love it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/6KbrBB5kNX_MdTj2hGAD5zqKOFce2YNQg3vZoA92J9QLh_P3T7gdfua-Vq56lQ55p55tItcVLiNMW76H5LTA_9lv5UyuihNFAe9BeCmdYYOIp1ktDrm6OtN_W9IAl_9f2Qk5HHVI_cI=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lydia has been baking so much lately! She really loves it. Here are some muffins she made with Lily. I haven&#8217;t had any yet, but they look wonderful!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/MU9jlVY7ImCHh2G7tEyddi5zA8gyhlaj3xySOximIEuVq3VtFYe5YHeVm0O1ilPAAhPBNb2cBkUNZposh_BSYUtE7Jz6RP7erdimcvok-nzh0T5Qd_IXScvHqvoYUM7wk7v6f9OlfV4=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/8Pb6FzKqJFZpnIDrGWtaO8CvxTzAHsMkjs8s5sJdZyJJODn5kZ_rq4kVC5WDwQtkYyK3JkS1Dz7TxCXSJYxb1aFGXT7I3_z8lrfrU_BsrdOk4s0_l34jhr0vz0Wb6Dq248mI4cJcHRc=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/k2d2AXKct9al04ej-uXb_YKciTW7xDSgvTwL8BpeLLBtXXt36i-AVqZcfOlNyWn6ShjyWO1pm03IFHKpLVZ6Z63ocY1D1HAxyC1xqGbzCqdCcPCa6zjHCB-RwOyk6HzMUIbOl8XeK8A=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One of the goals I made in Bora Bora was to do 100 straight days of eye exercises with Mary. I&#8217;ve gone through periods of great diligence and periods where I let it slide because it just felt like too much. But I am so committed to helping Mary have the best possible vision, so I&#8217;ve committed to one final push. If we can do 100 days in a row, we will be at the end of her therapy time (with only 2-3 times per week of maintenance afterwords). So I really want to give it a good do with her. Here is the chart Mary and I made together to track our progress. If she does it every day for 100 days, she will also get a trip to Buil-a-bear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/GE-q86GXl0yLPjS78ne9-rr78CuhAqEs71AlxXH3kWeYLvBz7CkYRurKTmG9u-GoN2vFDYNQbEhSOHkHokrveHkS_cHVrSwpCnBOTUc2h3BdtQLN3tAu44YQ1WwzxuAWDg-r_SKGbNY=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the things that Lily for which was most grateful about our trip to Bora Bora was the fact that she got to spend a lot of time thinking about how she wanted to spend the rest of her life and she made a lot of goals. Below are a list of some of &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2020\/02\/20\/goals\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Goals<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19031","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19031","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19031"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19031\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19032,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19031\/revisions\/19032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19031"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19031"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19031"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}