{"id":23650,"date":"2021-12-23T02:10:00","date_gmt":"2021-12-23T02:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/?p=23650"},"modified":"2021-12-29T05:15:33","modified_gmt":"2021-12-29T05:15:33","slug":"karin-and-jays-for-dinner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2021\/12\/23\/karin-and-jays-for-dinner\/","title":{"rendered":"Karin and Jay&#8217;s for dinner"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/EewDt2jMubNjtC9jSRV4q6YmZ68IGLxgo0e_ZdGyzNPMxfD1SBMcAqVRB7QoH4GZ2j3h1EzkOCB3HgkygzEaONY9ves9ru_vdsobOyubkUVCZC3ASrxGMyDHpJULxAwOL3HIAZUqUQE=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption>After work Abe and the kids had a little dance party.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"IMG 9926\" width=\"660\" height=\"371\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4VbftLY-e9c?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/KAhCQrQJRImW7WHd_MyC-tQ4hRMtfiquomHw0WEcdzOPqP4fqrqabQ14GvnvaGJmo99f8H4xXLh07AIYm40L9UUiYvG_5kusSwfDIcq5sRn2XCJXj4-XWJedSBNI2yI0ejM4IXCCAOc=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption>We drove up to Karin and Jay in Ogden for dinner and gift exchanges.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"IMG 6078\" width=\"660\" height=\"371\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/kHaB4L7duV8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"IMG 6086\" width=\"660\" height=\"371\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/T45R-B5UiJM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/P_X7ef4h49YPybBKPflxG7RnxVdXwpHJXjkW9mzu5ygurXaiDnivXWeWXNoPxpRvVeJMGkfW5Sy_RgWnoKBiynX2HVBTZ-u0xM1q1ur0cu9E_wUh7u6UQf5WRy-IuT6OtOVFDekbHDE=w2400\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption>Abe, the older girls, and I were up until almost 2am putting out presents. The drive from Ogden was more than an hour each way in the dark and the rain, and so we did not get home until late.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Since I am trying to record the entirety of our family&#8217;s life on here as authentically as possible, I&#8217;ll just say today was not the best day for us. Abe and I had a huge fight. Aell, mostly I was the one upset until Abe decided an hour and a half in that he could finally see where I was coming from.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We don&#8217;t usually have serious or upsetting disagreements&#8211;and lately we have felt especially in sync, so this day was very unsettling and painful. We did get to a better place before we went to bed, but it was still a very rough day. Abe, who was perfectly healthy at the beginning of our disagreement, ended it with a severe cold. So I think the stress of listening to me spout off was physically triggering. I wish I did not have a temper. But I am grateful Abe is always very kind and forgiving when it gets the best of me. He had a lot to forgive today, I&#8217;ll tell you that!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since I am trying to record the entirety of our family&#8217;s life on here as authentically as possible, I&#8217;ll just say today was not the best day for us. Abe and I had a huge fight. Aell, mostly I was the one upset until Abe decided an hour and a half in that he could &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2021\/12\/23\/karin-and-jays-for-dinner\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Karin and Jay&#8217;s for dinner<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23650","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23650","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23650"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23650\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23690,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23650\/revisions\/23690"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23650"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23650"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23650"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}