{"id":2735,"date":"2014-03-18T04:10:08","date_gmt":"2014-03-18T04:10:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.darais.com\/?p=2735"},"modified":"2014-03-18T04:10:08","modified_gmt":"2014-03-18T04:10:08","slug":"sick-but-not-sad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2014\/03\/18\/sick-but-not-sad\/","title":{"rendered":"Sick but not sad"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Still sick here. I can&#8217;t wait for summer. Abe and I both slogged through our days, but the girls were in pretty good moods today. That was a blessing, because I spent a lot of the morning working on my power-point for a school presentation today, and I practiced. The competition is coming up soon, and even though I&#8217;m planning on withdrawing after the first round so that I can attend a family reunion, I still want to do my best. All that to say, the girls were very patient with me today because I could have scored a lot higher in the attentive-mom department.<\/p>\n<p>The girls entertained themselves, though. Mom, that&#8217;s one of the dresses you got for Lydia&#8217;s birthday. She loves it. it&#8217;s her BEST twirling dress, and she specifically requests it so she can twirl.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/IMG_6973.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-2737\" alt=\"IMG_6973\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/IMG_6973-e1395115343291-682x1024.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"960\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/IMG_6974.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-2738\" alt=\"IMG_6974\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/IMG_6974-e1395115328409-682x1024.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"960\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I did listen to Lydia tell me stories, though. That was so fun. Lately I&#8217;ve been making up stories for her about her cat because that allows me to exert minimal physical effort and yet still feel like I&#8217;m kind of on the job. Today I got the pleasure of being the audience while Lydia told me stories&#8230;mostly about a little boy who died because he didn&#8217;t listen to his mommy. Every time she concluded with his death, her eyes would get really round and she&#8217;d nod knowingly.<\/p>\n<p>Pleasure abated slightly at that point. Maybe I am too vigilant about pointing out the potential hazards all around all the time. &#8220;Lydia, do NOT run across that parking lot because you could get hit by a car and DIE.&#8221; &#8220;Lydia, do NOT hang on that bookshelf because it could fall on you and you could DIE.&#8221; &#8220;Lydia, hold mommy&#8217;s hand while we walk on the sidewalk because there are driveways in front of us and you could get hit by a car and DIE.&#8221; Also, in the spring we get ants and then we spend a lot of time killing ants. There&#8217;s too much death in her life, it seems. Tomorrow I&#8217;m going to take a break from homework and ant-killing and instead point out all the new little plants and the baby partridges we have in the neighborhood. Perhaps a little more focus on life and beauty will give Lydia some new happy endings for her stories.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of happy, tonight on my drive home from school I listened to the radio, and one of my favorite pieces came on.\u00a0Holst&#8217;s\u00a0<em>Jupiter<\/em>\u00a0turned a sleepy, windy commute into an actively joyful, at times downright glorious experience. I have a copy of it somewhere. Maybe I&#8217;ll play that in the background during my life-is-also-happy discussion with Lydia.<\/p>\n<p>Staying on the topic of happy, I came home to discover my friend Paige had dropped off a plate of chocolate chip cookies. I dropped out of our preschool group this morning because I just feel too overwhelmed right now, and she kindly brought over a good-luck-on-finals treat with a super sweet note. I felt so happy eating my favorite food in the whole wide world, chocolate chip cookies, and reading her note. That really topped my day off in a terrific way.<\/p>\n<p>And tomorrow is going to be a fantastic day! Misty and I have a lunch date, and in the evening Karin is taking us to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.log-haven.com\/\">Log Haven<\/a>\u00a0for David&#8217;s birthday! (He&#8217;s in town!) Wow. A double whammy of fun. I can&#8217;t wait. Better go to bed so I can wake up and have it be tomorrow already.<\/p>\n<p>Here are the pictures Abe took while I was at school:<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_2743\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2743\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/IMG_6979.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-2743\" alt=\"Mary Berry.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/IMG_6979-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2743\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Mary Berry.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Then he asked Lydia to smile and look at the camera. She couldn&#8217;t manage to do both actions simultaneously, but she did get down a succession:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/IMG_6980.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-2744\" alt=\"IMG_6980\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/IMG_6980-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/IMG_6981.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-2736\" alt=\"IMG_6981\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/IMG_6981-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Still sick here. I can&#8217;t wait for summer. Abe and I both slogged through our days, but the girls were in pretty good moods today. That was a blessing, because I spent a lot of the morning working on my power-point for a school presentation today, and I practiced. The competition is coming up soon, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2014\/03\/18\/sick-but-not-sad\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Sick but not sad<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,21,29,40,53,58,63,67,68,75,77,87,92,93,95],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2735","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-abe-sick","category-cooking","category-email-correspondence","category-floor-time-with-my-children","category-lily-sick","category-lydia-pics","category-mary-pics","category-naps","category-new-testament","category-phone-call-with-mom","category-piano-practice","category-reading-to-my-children","category-school","category-school-work","category-scriptures"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2735","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2735"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2735\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2735"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2735"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2735"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}