{"id":34,"date":"2011-04-15T14:19:00","date_gmt":"2011-04-15T14:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.darais.com\/?p=34"},"modified":"2020-02-02T18:50:04","modified_gmt":"2020-02-02T18:50:04","slug":"smile-puh-leeeeaase-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2011\/04\/15\/smile-puh-leeeeaase-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Smile, puh-leeeeaase!!!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am DYING for Lydia to smile. According to the infant development books, she should have been doing this about a week ago, and when she didn&#8217;t I started to worry that Lydia wasn&#8217;t happy enough to smile. Her constant frowns make me really nervous. I mean, they are very cute and all, but I get the feeling that Lydia isn&#8217;t quite enthralled with earth life yet. And I want her to be!<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, I do regular smiling exercises with Lydia. We have replaced play time (whatever that was) for smile time. I hold her up and grin hard while explaining that this is what people do when they&#8217;re happy. &#8220;I&#8217;m happy, Lydia! Are you happy? Can you show mommy you&#8217;re happy by SMILING?? Pleeeeaaase???&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve also tried various other techniques that other moms on the internet have said worked for them. Lydia has had to endure being poked in various places while I try to remember the rhymes in &#8220;patty-cake.&#8221; She&#8217;s had to listen to me sing. One mom swore that saying, &#8220;Yahoo, sushi!&#8221; works like a charm, and so this morning I held Lydia in place while repeating that phrase at various volumes&#8211;to no effect. In fact, all I got was a confused, rather irritated frown. I then panicked that she inherited some rare genetic disorder that prohibits her from smiling. Well, if that&#8217;s the case, she didn&#8217;t get it from me.<\/p>\n<p>Poor Abe. I&#8217;ve repeatedly insinuated that his genes are responsible for Lydia&#8217;s inability to smile. (Please ignore his grin at the top of this page. I am SURE that I am genetically innocent here, and so that leaves only one possible culprit!) He has started to pray that Lydia will smile, and I get the feeling he has a vested interest in these prayers.<\/p>\n<p>Please excuse me for cutting this blog short. I just remembered that one mom said mirror time did the trick for her baby, so Lydia and I are off to stare in the mirror together. Wish us luck!<\/p>\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2 comments:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/02079356026839768113\">Preethi<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.blogspot.com\/2011\/04\/smile-puh-leeeeaase.html?showComment=1302904411247#c2438203441713014542\">April 15, 2011 at 2:53 PM<\/a>I\n was seriously laughing so hard at this post.  Especially the \ngenetically innocent part. \ud83d\ude42  She&#8217;ll be giggling before you know it!<a href=\"javascript:;\">Reply<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/03664384728760431971\">Anna<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.blogspot.com\/2011\/04\/smile-puh-leeeeaase.html?showComment=1303233925053#c1964095693337274118\">April 19, 2011 at 10:25 AM<\/a>Ha!\n I remember going through this same thing!  I would seriously make a \nclown out of myself trying to get Lucy to smile.  When I finally took \nher to work one day to visit Daddy&#8230;she totally smiled at him.  Oh man.\n  I was happy she was smiling but so disappointed it wasn&#8217;t at me.<a href=\"javascript:;\">Reply<\/a><\/li><\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am DYING for Lydia to smile. According to the infant development books, she should have been doing this about a week ago, and when she didn&#8217;t I started to worry that Lydia wasn&#8217;t happy enough to smile. Her constant frowns make me really nervous. I mean, they are very cute and all, but I &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2011\/04\/15\/smile-puh-leeeeaase-2\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Smile, puh-leeeeaase!!!<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18935,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34\/revisions\/18935"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}