{"id":6517,"date":"2015-02-21T06:05:11","date_gmt":"2015-02-21T06:05:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.darais.com\/?p=6517"},"modified":"2015-02-21T06:05:11","modified_gmt":"2015-02-21T06:05:11","slug":"a-small-epiphany","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2015\/02\/21\/a-small-epiphany\/","title":{"rendered":"a small epiphany"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I reread yesterday&#8217;s blog post and had an epiphany: I have confused house cleaning with parenting. Doing the dishes is not critical to keeping my children alive! However, stuff like that\u00a0<em>is<\/em> critical to my sanity, and my sanity is a valuable asset in child rearing. So, in a roundabout way, dishes help.<\/p>\n<p>I did take some pictures today.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6518\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6518\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/IMG_1065.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-6518\" alt=\"We started out the morning with baths. Those always give Mary's hair a fighting chance for the day.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/IMG_1065-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6518\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">We started out the morning with baths. Those always give Mary&#8217;s hair a fighting chance for the day.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6519\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6519\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/IMG_1074.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-6519\" alt=\"...But no matter what we do, after her nap, her hair always ends up like this. Mary smiles and says, &quot;My hair is cwazy!&quot;\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/IMG_1074-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6519\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&#8230;But no matter what we do, after her nap, her hair always ends up like this. Mary smiles and says, &#8220;My hair is cwazy!&#8221;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6523\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6523\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/IMG_1086.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-6523\" alt=\"Dance party.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/IMG_1086-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6523\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Dance party.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/IMG_1083.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-6521\" alt=\"IMG_1083\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/IMG_1083-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6522\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6522\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/IMG_1084.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-6522\" alt=\"Lydia was showing us how she can dance &quot;en pointe.&quot;\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/IMG_1084-1024x682.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6522\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Lydia was showing us how she can dance &#8220;en pointe.&#8221;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I have one more picture.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/IMG_00121.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6560\" alt=\"IMG_0012\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/IMG_00121-e1424670779654.jpg\" width=\"480\" height=\"640\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Summer took Lydia to her school today for &#8220;take a preschooler to school day,&#8221; and I have a cute shot of them outside her school. I was proud of Lydia for walking all the way back home with Summer afterward. She had to trek up a pretty big hill and walk quite a ways, and by the time she came home, she was pretty pooped.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I reread yesterday&#8217;s blog post and had an epiphany: I have confused house cleaning with parenting. Doing the dishes is not critical to keeping my children alive! However, stuff like that\u00a0is critical to my sanity, and my sanity is a valuable asset in child rearing. So, in a roundabout way, dishes help. I did take &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2015\/02\/21\/a-small-epiphany\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">a small epiphany<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6517","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6517","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6517"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6517\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}