{"id":6756,"date":"2015-03-22T10:50:33","date_gmt":"2015-03-22T10:50:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.darais.com\/?p=6756"},"modified":"2015-03-22T10:50:33","modified_gmt":"2015-03-22T10:50:33","slug":"catch-up-at-445-am","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2015\/03\/22\/catch-up-at-445-am\/","title":{"rendered":"catch-up at 4:45 am"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>On Friday I went and talked to the head of the program and discussed some of my concerns with her. Afterward I sent her an itemized write-up of some highlighted experiences I had had in class. I still don&#8217;t know whether that was the right course of action or not. I do know I tried hard to do my best to walk that line between turning the other cheek (which, after trying all semester, I ultimately failed \u00a0to do) and standing up for what I thought was right, in the hope that somehow that would change the environment for future students who might find themselves on these two chefs&#8217; bad list.<\/p>\n<p>I am a little scared to go to class next week and face the chefs, but I have to go. I guess life is just full of opportunities to do hard things. I didn&#8217;t blog Friday because I was so tired after my shift at the restaurant that I came home and went straight to bed. The only drama that happened on that shift occurred when the owner found me salting the pesto without a measuring spoon. I don&#8217;t know what came over me! Normally I ask so many questions that I am\u00a0<em>annoying<\/em>, but when I couldn&#8217;t find the spoons I thought, &#8220;Oh well. They don&#8217;t have any.&#8221; &#8211;and I went on to try to eyeball the measurements. Oops!<\/p>\n<p>And then today we leased a new car! Our old one was seriously breaking down. The brake light was perpetually on and we couldn&#8217;t drive it without it making the sound of fingernails-on-the -chalkboard continuously. It was a huge blessing to have the old car up until now, but it felt so nice to drive off with a working van. It&#8217;s the exact same color and model as our last van (Toyota Sienna) only fourteen years newer.<\/p>\n<p>We came\u00a0<em>this close\u00a0<\/em> to getting a Ford Explorer, and finally the Toyota sales person&#8217;s pitch about how Toyotas retain their value swayed us. We don&#8217;t want to have to pay a ton of money in two years just to keep our lease payments the same.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t take pictures of the new van because by the end it was 7 pm and we were famished and exhausted. We ate and came straight home so I could finish my portfolio for class.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6758\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6758\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/IMG_0315.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-6758\" alt=\"I did get one picture of Abe and Mary in front of the Ford dealership.\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/IMG_0315-e1427022484297-768x1024.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"853\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6758\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I did get one picture of Abe and Mary in front of the Ford dealership.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>By the time that was done, it was 11 pm and I took a &#8220;nap.&#8221; It&#8217;s 4:45 am now, and so I figure I have had a long enough nap!<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a video of the dance party Abe and the girls had Saturday morning before we car shopped:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=W7QC0vLjGtg\">https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=W7QC0vLjGtg<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On Friday I went and talked to the head of the program and discussed some of my concerns with her. Afterward I sent her an itemized write-up of some highlighted experiences I had had in class. I still don&#8217;t know whether that was the right course of action or not. I do know I tried &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2015\/03\/22\/catch-up-at-445-am\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">catch-up at 4:45 am<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6756","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6756","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6756"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6756\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6756"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6756"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6756"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}