{"id":8365,"date":"2015-09-16T23:39:46","date_gmt":"2015-09-16T23:39:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.darais.com\/?p=8365"},"modified":"2015-09-16T23:39:46","modified_gmt":"2015-09-16T23:39:46","slug":"together-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2015\/09\/16\/together-time\/","title":{"rendered":"together time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This morning I felt like a flood of inspiration hit. I realized some things I could do with the kids on a daily basis that would be fun and educational, and I was so excited that I planned out the next couple days hour by hour. Today everything went according to plan&#8230;except that right now instead of blogging, according to my plan I should be five minutes away from serving dinner. Oh well. We all ate a big snack an hour ago and this is my first moment of down time all day.<\/p>\n<p>Everything else stayed on track, though! We went to story time at the library and then stopped off at Barnes and Noble so I could buy some workbooks for the girls. I also bought a dinosaur book and a book on anatomy since Lydia is very interested in those subjects right now.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/IMG_1303.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-8366\" alt=\"IMG_1303\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/IMG_1303-1024x768.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" \/><\/a>Mary had a massive melt-down in Barnes and Noble. After she pooped, I told her we had to go home to change her diaper. She followed me screaming and crying. I felt very blessed because I didn&#8217;t feel at all annoyed or embarrassed, but instead we eventually worked it out. I told Mary if she learns to poop in the potty then we won&#8217;t have to leave places to go home and change her diaper (especially since I always forget to bring diapers with me). Clearly, I am ambivalent on the potty training front. One day I hate the thought, and the next it doesn&#8217;t sound all that bad.<\/p>\n<p>At any rate, Mary cheered right up, and as soon as I cleaned her up at home, she ran straight to the potty and tried to teach herself to poop on the potty. At lunch time I announced we were going to start home schooling. I should have said &#8220;together time,&#8221; but home schooling best term I could think of (at the time) for the couple of work sheets and music lessons I plan on starting as part of our daily routines. Lydia slumped in her chair and said, &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to learn what &#8220;home schooling&#8221; means.&#8221; I thought that was a hilarious and apt reflection on my past attempts to educate Lydia at home. I always fail because I end up sucking all the joy out of learning and push her too hard.<\/p>\n<p>This time, though, I&#8217;m excited because I have no goal in mind other than to provide us ALL with happy together time that also happens to be slightly educational. Today it worked, too! We all had a good time, and the girls even asked for more when I announced it was time to get ready for ballet.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/IMG_1307.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-8367\" alt=\"IMG_1307\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/IMG_1307-1024x768.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" \/><\/a>Abe showed up at ballet and surprised the girls. Afterward they ran to him crying, &#8220;Daddy&#8221; or, in Mary&#8217;s case, &#8220;My bud! My bud! My bud is here!&#8221;\u00a0Here are\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=hPb90azdlvA\">two<\/a>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=2-lrYZkvzwg\">vidoes<\/a>\u00a0of ballet.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/IMG_1314.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-8369\" alt=\"IMG_1314\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/IMG_1314-1024x768.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/IMG_1310.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-8368\" alt=\"IMG_1310\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/IMG_1310-1024x768.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>After ballet, the girls jumped in puddles. They love their puddle jumper rain boots.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/IMG_3155.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-8373\" alt=\"IMG_3155\" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/IMG_3155-e1442447115281-768x1024.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"853\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We are now debating whether we should head out to buy me some jeans. The weather has changed and I have only the three outfits I&#8217;ve worn all summer long. I hate to buy pregnancy jeans so late in the game, but let&#8217;s be honest. At 211 pounds, I can probably get a lot of use out of these jeans long after Ammon arrives. So, if I have the energy to make it to the mall, that&#8217;s how we&#8217;ll end this lovely day.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning I felt like a flood of inspiration hit. I realized some things I could do with the kids on a daily basis that would be fun and educational, and I was so excited that I planned out the next couple days hour by hour. Today everything went according to plan&#8230;except that right now &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2015\/09\/16\/together-time\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">together time<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8365","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8365","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8365"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8365\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8365"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8365"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8365"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}