{"id":8544,"date":"2015-10-09T04:24:20","date_gmt":"2015-10-09T04:24:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abeandlily.darais.com\/?p=8544"},"modified":"2015-10-09T04:24:20","modified_gmt":"2015-10-09T04:24:20","slug":"credit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2015\/10\/09\/credit\/","title":{"rendered":"Credit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This evening Lydia commented for the second time that I spend all of my time in bed. Those comments always make me feel bad and guilty for not being a better mom, but then I make myself take a step back and assess the day. Also, I try to remember that I get up all night long to go to the bathroom, and two of the nights this week I have barely slept at all.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Credit I am giving myself for today:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the morning I dropped the girls off at gymnastics and went grocery shopping. Then we went to a sushi restaurant before heading over to Lydia&#8217;s preschool.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_8545\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8545\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/IMG_1555.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-8545\" alt=\"Visual proof of our sushi outing. \" src=\"http:\/\/abeandlily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/IMG_1555-1024x768.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-8545\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Visual proof of our sushi outing.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I read to Mary while Lydia was at preschool and made some important phone calls. Then we picked up Lydia and headed home. I proceeded to take my two hour nap.<\/p>\n<p>I did make dinner tonight, and after dinner I had more phone calls to make. There is a lot going on in my extended family right now, and so I spend a lot of time on the phone.<\/p>\n<p>After the phone calls, I cleaned up dinner and tidied the living room and upstairs before reading more to the girls before bed time. In July I started keeping track of how many books we read, and we&#8217;re closing in on 400.<\/p>\n<p>That means I can&#8217;t be the World&#8217;s Worst Mom, right? My instinct is just to sink into the comment and think I fail at motherhood, but these are the times I give thanks for blogging. Thank-you, Grandma, for being my initial motivation to blog regularly! This exercise has saved me from many a downward emotional spiral.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This evening Lydia commented for the second time that I spend all of my time in bed. Those comments always make me feel bad and guilty for not being a better mom, but then I make myself take a step back and assess the day. Also, I try to remember that I get up all &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/2015\/10\/09\/credit\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Credit<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8544","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8544","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8544"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8544\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8544"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8544"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abeandlily.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8544"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}