On Sunday we wanted to attend one of the historical churches in Charleston, but I was the only person awake on time for this to happen. Saturday was a big day, and after everyone woke up we packed up and headed over to the visitor center at Fort Sumter. We bought tickets for the ferry over to the fort and waited about an hour for it to come. While we waited the kids played on the dock and collected shells next to it.
To me this means that travel, culture, education, and good taste have nothing to do with a person’s worthiness or character. I am very proud of my ancestors who gave up being slaveholders once they woke up to the realization it was morally indefensible. I hope I can have “eyes to see” areas of my own life in need of moral reform and the self-discipline to make vital changes so that my descendants do not have to be ashamed of me.
After Middleton House Abe and I talked a lot and decided we need to cut out red meat (again) from our diets. It’s not slavery, but it’s also not morally defensible. So here we are, trying–again–to edge toward becoming vegetarian. Here’s hoping we actually do it this time. I know it’s a baby step, but it’s also one of the areas of my life that I can both see and change. There are weaknesses I have that I can see but can not seem to change (like losing my temper, swearing too much, being quick to judgement, occasionally to jealousy, and often to imprudence)– but a lot of my weaknesses are personal. Being overly absorbed in my personal flaws is, ironically, one of my major flaws! It’s its own form of self-centeredness. What I am interested in after reflecting on the plantation are changes I can make to extricate myself from involvement in societal depravities that I might take for granted. Or better yet, I would love to wake up to a way I could actively be involved in improving our current societal issues.
Clarissa gave us a great monologue about how the statue was going to give her powers to be a princess. Videos below:
After dinner we drove back to the French Quarter to try to get a carriage tour, but they were sold out. So we got more pralines and drove the four hours home. In the parking lot our rental car’s key battery died, so we set off the alarm and could not get it to stop for what felt like forever. When it finally stopped the entire square cheered. (There is a lot of outdoor and rooftop eating around the square, and our alarm was very, uh, loud.)
Here is what Mary captured in her travel journal about today:

