Author: lilydarais

Abe and I are having a tense time today. I think on our own we both actually had great days. I babysat my neighbor’s daughter, Chloe, and took her and my kids to the library for story time. We had a lovely outing and lots of fun when we came back. (Well, the kids played dress up and had fun while I cleaned and cooked. But those things are fun for me!)

I also had a great visit with my neighbor, Emily, when she picked up Chloe.

Abe had a great day at work. He didn’t feel great, but he got all of his stuff done, which is amazing.

I don’t know why we’re struggling at home. Maybe we are both still sick, generally stressed from life, and tired. I’m sure tomorrow will be better.

Clarissa looked so cute I wanted a picture, and of course Ammon wanted his picture taken, too.

On Wednesday we had our usual Wednesday marathon of homework, practice, dance, and then, for Lydia, activity days. And after I dropped Lydia off for activity days, I went to my friend Blair’s birthday party. It’s hard for me to go to things like that alone, and Abe couldn’t come because all of our sitters were at the youth activity Lydia was attending. But I actually had a decent time talking to Blair’s very nice friends.

Then we came home and worked on our finances. We got our stock payout from the SAP buyout, and that was good (except for the fact that we had overestimated how many shares Abe had, darn it). But it was still good. We linked up to Mint so I can be more involved in finances. Up until now I haven’t really been, but I want to be more involved and I remember Mint from my single days.

This morning Ammon woke up in extreme pain. His knee was hurting so much that he could not walk. I was terrified it was my fault for putting his shoes on in an angle that tweaked his knee on our way to Rodizio’s.

Abe took a sick day to help with the doctor since Ammon couldn’t walk. We ended up going from the doctor to the hospital so that they could get x-rays and also do some blood work. It turns out that the cold virus running through our family settled in Ammon’s knee and we just have to wait it out.

This all happened before 11:30am, which was so great because today is National Puzzle Day! Abe had contemplated taking a personal day today anyway so we could keep the girls home and do puzzles all day. But instead he got to take a legitimate sick day, and after we were done with Ammon’s hospital trip, we picked up the girls early from school, got Cafe Rio, and bought a bunch of puzzles at the Dollar Store. We went home to our house and had the most peaceful afternoon doing puzzles while Clarissa napped.

After we were done with puzzles, we watched Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, which Lydia finished before the puzzling.

Abe stayed up until 11:30 pm studying and hand copying out the Song of Nephi. He has not been feeling the best because work has affected his self esteem and is SO stressful. So he loved the Song of Nephi and spent an hour just drinking it in.

It was a much needed, very peaceful day.

Monday was Abe’s birthday! It was kind of a downer day for him, actually, because he has been feeling so gutted by work. But he did get a nice long chat with his therapist in, and after work we went to Rodizio’s with Karin and Jay.

We adore Abe. I feel like I blog a LOT about how much I love Abe, so maybe since I’m back blogging and I have to get the kids up for school, I’ll skip my usual long posts on this subject. But I have never been more in love with Abe, and I am so grateful he was born–and made it to thirty five!! I love you, Abe!!

On Friday I had a Face Time chat with my dear friend, Thalia. I just love her and loved catching up so much.

Also, the girls went to school Friday! That was a first for the week. I’m still not feeling great, but I’m glad they’re mostly recovered.

I took the car in after school for a tune up, and after we picked up Cafe Rio for dinner. It’s so yummy.

Then we cleaned up, put the kids down, and watched a John Dehlin Mormon Stories video about the Swedish Rescue, and afterward we wound down with one of our art history documentaries. Abe didn’t have to stay up late working this Friday! That was so needed.

On Thursday I let the kids have ANOTHER sick day, even though Mary and Lydia only have colds and are really minimally affected at this point.

Clarissa asked for a dress up today! Well, she doesn’t talk, but she definitely communicates desire. So Abe submitted to her request.

And Lydia and I read Harry Potter in bed together. It’s been going 24/7 on the TV, and it’s so fun to re-read the books while Lydia reads them too.

On Wednesday we were all still down in the dumps, so I let the kids stay home from school AGAIN. I normally don’t like the background noise of television, but I’m starting to love having Harry Potter on all of the time because it feels like we’ve entered that world. I started reading Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone so that I can catch up to Lydia, who is now on book five.

On Tuesday I let the kids stay home because everyone was still feeling yucky, but somehow we justified going snowshoeing in the afternoon for Abe’s birthday (even though his birthday isn’t for a week). The fresh air was good for us, right?

Abe and I had so much fun. All of the big kids thought it was an exhausting activity and had no problem broadcasting this opinion. Clarissa, on the other hand, cried until we let her participate.

The kids were sick and it snowed a lot on Martin Luther King day. I had grand plans of sitting everyone down to start the tradition of watching Selma together, but I was also sick and just let the kids watch Harry Potter a bunch while I rested inside. I did manage to do a lot of shoveling outside and put the kids in snow gear to enjoy the snow while I shoveled. Lydia built a snow man!

Today I woke up practically unable to move because I slept on my back wrong. Yoga helped a TON and now I feel loads better. But Abe also had a rough night and barely slept because of all of his work stress, so we both took it sooooo easy today. Well, as easy as you can take it with four kids.

I went to yoga, grocery shopped a bunch, and cooked red lentil, spinach and lime soup and prepped the mornay sauce for a mac and cheese dish this week. I also cleaned the house, which was completely trashed by the end of the day. It took a long time.

Clarissa is a little sick, and we feel bad for her. But we are so grateful that the rest of the family has basically stayed healthy for ELEVEN MONTHS!!! We are not immune deficient after all!!! It’s so amazing. Knock on wood.

Abe had a dance party to cheer Clarissa up. Ammon photo bombed the pic, and he is naked because I’ve learned that he poops the minute I put him in undies and clothes. So my new strategy is to leave him naked all the time that we are at home. He doesn’t really like it, but he never has any accidents when he is naked, so for my selfish sake, he will probably be naked all the time. Poor boy.