Old Town Trolley and organ concert

On Monday we went to breakfast at Hash House a Go Go. They are famous for biscuits, and unfortunately Abe dislikes biscuits, so he bargained hard to get his swapped out for a pancake. No such luck. Instead they gave him toast. It was still delicious.

En route to breakfast.

Then we drove to San Diego’s Old Town to catch the trolley tour. We did the Go City build your own pass, and we wanted to do the trolley tour first because it gave us a great overview of things we wanted to fit in the week. The trolley tour took two hours and covered Old Town, the Gaslamp district, the Embarcadero, Coronado Beach, Balboa Park, and a lot of other places that I can’t remember. Clarissa fell asleep on me in the carrier for most of the tour, and Ammon was pretty good and only tried to jump out of the trolley window a couple of times. Abe was great at catching him.

After the tour, we wandered around Old Town and discovered its connection to the Mormon Battalion. The Mormon Battalion was recruited by the U.S. government to fight in the war against Mexico, but by the time they reached San Diego the war was over. So instead they helped build up San Diego. We went to the courthouse they built, and we explored the original town square of San Diego–the “birthplace of California.”

At the courthouse built by Mormons.

Then we walked in the blazing heat to the model train museum down the road. Ammon LOVED it but immediately got in trouble with the host because he tried to touch stuff. As I was reaching out to pull him away, the host beat me to the punch and yanked him off of the display with a sharp reprimand. I spent the rest of our time there both enjoying the trains and trying not to feel upset at the host for touching Ammon so harshly. Of course, I completely understood her frustration, but I still felt upset about the interaction.

Ammon appears not to be phased by the harsh reprimand at all.

Ammon broke into tears upon our announcement that it was finally time to leave the model train museum, and the only thing that consoled him was when we used Clarissa’s carrier to let him ride piggy-back on my back. He loved that, and even though it was swelteringly hot, I did too. We hiked up the hill to the Church’s site dedicated to the Mormon Battalion and they took our photo there.

Then we headed back to the car, gave everyone snacks and water, and drove to Balboa Park. At Balboa Park we got really lucky with the parking and found a spot in the lot right across from the Museum of Man, which was on our pass. We headed to the museum and enjoyed the exhibit on monsters with the kids. They loved learning all about monster myths.

Then we headed upstairs to an excellent exhibit on race. I tried religiously to read all of the most important sections to the kids, and then I tried to ask them questions to see if they understood what the exhibit was about. They were very distracted by a coloring station they had spotted en route to the race exhibit, so finally I gave up and just let them go color while I read the rest of the exhibit to myself.

After the exhibit, we headed to a dinosaur sculpture where the kids played. Abe was a hero and ran a mile to a vegetarian fast food restaurant called Evolution. He picked up the most delicious fast food we have ever eaten and literally ran it back to us. In the meantime, while we were waiting, Ammon pooped again and Mary had an enormous temper tantrum. After dealing with that, I packed up the kids and walked them around the square until Mary calmed down. While we were walking, the kindest balloon man came up to us and just gave us three amazing balloons: a spiderman, an octopus, and some other shape which I couldn’t quite figure out.

Post-tantrum Mary. She looks so calm, doesn’t she?

With the balloons in hand and a calmer Mary, we walked back to the dinosaur exhibit and Abe showed up shortly after. He was so fast! I couldn’t believe he had actually run a mile, fetched our food, and run back so quickly. We ate while the kids played some more and then wandered over to the Spreckles outdoor Organ. Abe took Ammon to grab the best seats in the outdoor seating–right in front of the organ. I stayed by the fountain at the theater entrance holding Clarissa in the carrier while the girls fished pennies out of the fountain, made wishes, and threw the pennies back in again.

Then we headed in to join Abe for the organ concert. By that point, Clarissa was done so I had to immediately retreat to the side of the theater to a walkway with bushes. It was out of the way so I felt free to dance around with Clarissa to the music. We were just in the middle of twirling to Beethoven’s 6th symphony–performed on the organ for the first time ever–when Abe wandered over with Ammon. Ammon was apparently incapable of sitting through the concert, so I loaded him and Clarissa up on the stroller and took them for a walk until Abe and the girls joined up with us.

Walking with Ammon and Clarissa through the Moorish gardens by the Museum of Man was one of my favorite parts of the day. The sun was setting so the heat had subsided, and the gardens were so peaceful. The kids were subdued and it was just a delightful experience.

Then Abe and the girls wanted to show us a tree by the parking lot that had the most incredible roots we had ever seen. The roots looked just like a waterfall. They were massive and tumbled downward from the tree just like streams of falling water.

Again, after this day of adventure, the kids fell asleep in the car on the way home and we transitioned them successfully to the tent. It felt like a full, happy ending to a full, happy day.

San Juan Capistrano

On Sunday Abe got up at around 6am so he could go help Vince wake up so Vince could be ready in time for church. It was rather important that Vince be not more than an hour late for church because he was supposed to get the gift of the Holy Ghost during sacrament meeting, and we weren’t sure what the bishop would do if Vince were late. Thankfully, Vince made it and everything turned out perfectly.

I missed this part of church because the kids slept in quite late. As soon as they got up, I fed them breakfast in bed and got them all ready for church. Then we watched Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them until Abe came and picked us up for church.

We fell in love with Vince’s Long Beach ward. Everyone was so friendly and welcoming. In Relief Society the teacher made the original move of showing a Saturday Night Live skit about Michael Jordan saying affirmations. The lesson was on being a child of God, and the skit was quite funny and surprisingly relevant.

Brother Richardson joined us at the end of church, and it is always a great treat to see him. He came to lunch at the hotel with us afterward. Vince talked about his spiritual journey, and Brother Richardson listened and also occasionally chipped in with his usual wise counsel.

After lunch, we checked out and drove to San Juan Capistrano, where Brother Richardson joined us again–much to our great delight. We wandered the old mission and Brother Richardson helped us keep track of Ammon, whom we lost at least once. I love San Juan Capistrano and have great memories of attending an Easter Sunday mass there when I was a kid. I would have liked to attend mass that day too, but our kids were churched out and we were limited on time. After the tour, though, Brother Richardson did take us all out to his favorite local gelato place.

Then we said goodbye to Brother Richardson and drove down to the KOA in Chula Vista where we set up camp on site 3501. We decided to camp in San Diego because it saved us a TON of money and also because we actually enjoy it. Abe positively prefers it, and I enjoy it too. The kids seem to do really well in the tent and love their sleeping bags. The KOA was insanely kid friendly, too. There were more things for the kids to do than we possibly had time for.

Our site

After we set up camp, we drove to an Italian restaurant that was open late. Thankfully, all of our kids fell asleep on the way home and we peacefully transitioned them to their sleeping bags. Abe and I had not pumped up our air mattress very well, so that night it kind of collapsed while we were sleeping…but that just added to the sense of adventure!

Vince’s Baptism

On Saturday we drove to Los Angeles and arrived an hour before Vince’s baptism, so we went to a nearby strip mall and grabbed some lunch from Charro Chicken. Since Vince has only been meeting with the missionaries for a month, we did not expect many people to know him or be at the baptism.

To our surprise and delight, when we got to the church there was an entire room full of good members who came out to show love and support for Vince. The baptism ended up getting started almost an hour late and took quite a long time for a baptism service, and I was so impressed at how kind and patient everyone was with all of the waiting.

Before he was baptized, Vince sang, “I can only imagine.” Vince has a great voice! Abe then baptized Vince, and then Vince shared his testimony. Mostly he talked about my mom, her faith, and the trials she went through with my dad. Then the bishop stood up and shared what it meant for Vince to be baptized. It was a really sweet ceremony.

During most of the ceremony I was watching the kids go crazy in the gym. They had been cooped up in the car for the long drives from Orem to Las Vegas and Las Vegas to Los Angeles, and they were a little bonkers. Ammon also pooped in the middle of the baptism, which was problematic because all of our diapers and wipes were in the car, Abe had the car keys, and Abe was performing the baptism. We had a smelly time together.

We also got to meet Kamiyah for the first time. She is a beautiful little girl, inside and out.

Afterward, we all met up at my Auntie Geri’s house and then went out to eat at the Filipino Restaurant, Goldilocks. I ordered fresh lumpia and adobo, but then I saw my Auntie Geri’s palabok and ordered that too. We only eat Filipino food once a year in L.A., so we had to make the most of it. After dinner, Abe and I split a halo halo ice cream while the kids ate coconut, mango, and ube ice cream.

Then we went to our hotel in Long Beach, the Courtyard Long Beach Downtown Marriott. It was really nice and the kids were so wonderful and slept through the night!

Sarah’s endowment

Lily and I worked out together Thursday Morning. It’s a crazy hardcore lady from studio S that has a free viseo on Amazon. I so love working out with Lily.
Lately I’ve realized that my prayer life has not been very vibrant. I decided to try to change that so I can feel God more deeply and consistently in m life. I did a lot of praying on Thursday to try to revitalize my relation with God. At one point at work, I prayed to God before performing a task, trying to involve Him in the work and asking Him to be with me. I felt a wave of warmth that communicated to me Gods delight at being more involved in my heart and mind throughout my day. I hope to let Him in more. I had another great work day. I’m getting more organized than ever before and it is helping me to execute my tasks more effectively than ever before.
At home, Lily was exhausted and didn’t accomplish as much as she wanted. I sympathized because I felt like a Zomvie all day on Wednesday the Fourth. She didn’t pack like she wanted to, but she did do a critical Target run for our upcoming San Diego trip. She got a new car seat for Clarissa that looks a bit like a thrown. I absolutely love, and Clarissa like sit too! The old seat was literally falling apart.
I got home from work at 3:45 for our exciting evening adventure. At 4:40 Lily, Georgia and I drove an hour to bountiful to attend an endowment session  in which my cousin Sarah Krysten would be taking out her endowments. She’s getting married Saturday. We are missing the wedding because of Vince’s baptism, but we we’re so grateful we could make it to the Endowment session.
We left so early to accommodate for traffic, but traffic was amazing so we arrived es early, allowing us the eat at Chipotle which was a God-send because Lily and I were starving.
The session was beautiful. Suzanne was helping Sarah and her mom, Mary Lou, who just got her endowments out a couple of weeks ago, so my dad linked up with me, Lily and Georgia. I was so nice to pal around with him. After the session, we visited with family and drove home.
We were in the mood for ice cream and wanting to do something celebratory for Georgia’s birthday which was the following day so we went to Menchies. Menchies is one of my favorite deserts in the planet. I alway do a fruit yogurt combination with their tart yogurt and load it with chocolate and fruit and other delicious toppings.
May I just take a moment to talk about Georgia. I am so grateful to have her in my life. In our home she is a source of light, knowledge and wisdom. She loves the gospel of Jesus Christ. She is mild, loving and kind, always. She is so wonderful with the children. She coaches them to have good behavior and never turns away a cry for help. Our children adore her and are constantly knocking on her door to interrupt her projects to be with her or borrow something. Hero this is incredibly nice to talk to. Sometimes I will just hang out in her room and talk with her. Sometimes I’m in a talkative mood, so she does a bunch of listening. She is an incredible listener. She loves to serve. She is constantly trying to bless the lives of everyone in the home through tydying or buying fresh salmon for dinner or the myriad of other things she does just to make the grass grow greener around her. We love Georgia!

creative girls

Today during Clarissa’s nap Lydia announced she was going to sew Mary a stuffed animal. I was busy reading My Cousin Rachel and absentmindedly gave her the go ahead. An hour later I was shocked when Lydia came back with a stuffed cat head she had sewn for Mary.

I was really proud.

And then the girls had a puppet show with a ton of paper bag puppets they made. It’s amazing what happens when I completely check out for the day. Apparently the girls are completely capable of creating their own wholesome entertainment. I am used to toddlers who get into mischief the second they are separated from a screen. It’s so great to have older kids!

Ammon, on the other hand, did spend a lot of his day in front of the television while I read my book. That felt like a parenting fail.

But both girls had great musical practices, which I managed to supervise in spite of my addicting book. And Clarissa is alive, which is really about as much as I can hope for for her. I’m not exactly expecting her to sew or practice an instrument anytime soon!

Easy Sunday

Sunday morning we spent taking it really easy. Life has felt like a whirlwind lately, so it was nice to just do the bare minimum of keeping children alive.

After church Abe and I made cobb salad for everyone and then we ate outside. Once that was done and cleaned up, we put the babies down and played bananagrams with the girls and my mom. Sometimes games with the kids feel like a chore, but bananagrams is so fun. We played three rounds. I don’t know why we don’t play every day!

Goblin Valley

On Saturday Clarissa woke up at 5am, which was painful (especially since she woke up twice during the night) but a blessing in disguise. Since Clarissa woke us up, we were up and ready to hit the Valley of the Goblins before it got hot.

When we got to the valley around 6am, we were the only ones there. We had a little breakfast in the picnic area overlooking the valley, and then the kids raced down the steps into the valley to explore.

      

By the time we were done exploring the valley, it was already getting hot. We were so grateful for the early start. We went back to camp and Abe took down the tent while the girls explored by our tent site and I took care of Ammon and Clarissa.

Our tent. We slept without the rain fly under the stars. That was magical.

After we broke camp, Abe and I discussed heading to Capitol Reef National Park for another adventure, but we decided to just head home and have a normal Saturday instead. We were amazed that Goblin Valley was close enough that we could have BOTH an adventure and a regular weekend all at once!

 

Going to Goblin Valley

On Friday Abe came home after having a really great day with unexpected blessings on the last day of his quarter. Deals came in out of the blue, and he ended at a higher number than he anticipated. It has been a HUGE load for him to manage, though, so he was so excited to leave it all behind and drive straight to Goblin Valley State Park.

I had stayed up too late on Thursday night trying to extend my amazing Thursday, and the ironic outcome was that I was tired and very, very irritable on Friday. Poor Lydia tried to have a good harp practice but I lost my temper. We were all a sad bunch when Abe got home.

But as soon as we started driving, things got better. It is so fun to go on adventures as a family, and we were excited to finally see Goblin Valley. Once the muddy boulders that look like goblins started appearing, Ammon started to call them “glob-lins.” It was, in fact, a very apt term. “Look, Mommy!” he kept shouting. “A GLOB-LIN!!!”

Once we got to the campsite, the kids immediately started climbing up to the towers while I supervised and Abe set up camp. We were all thrilled to use our sleeping bags, and everyone was especially excited to see Clarissa use hers. She snuggled right in! …But she was too excited to fall asleep. She kept crawling out of it after snuggling and exploring the tent. Abe got her to sleep by walking her all around in the dark until she fell asleep.

After Clarissa was asleep, we ate s’mores by the fire and the kids tried to build a sandcastle out of heaps of soft dust around the site. When we got tired, we fell asleep in our tent which was open to the stars. The temperature was GORGEOUS, and I don’t know if I have ever slept under the stars before. It was a beautiful experience.

The kids saw a shooting star, and Lydia reported that she made a wish.

“What did you wish for?” Abe asked.

“I wished that Ammon would never kill his-self,” she replied seriously.

Abe and I laughed so hard. Ammon is indeed very adventurous so we are always commenting on how he tries every day to kill himself. Lydia has apparently overheard our jokes and has been concerned. She is such a sweet girl.

A fabulous day

On Thursday Abe and I both had spectacular days. I woke up feeling amazing and happy and full of love. During Lydia’s harp practice, I was so excited to see her progress that we both had an incredible time. We focused, but with joy and excitement. It was amazing.

I was feeling so energized that I moved right on to Mary, even though I’m not officially her “practice parent” anymore. We sat down and inspiration started flowing. I had a lot of conversations with Mary’s thumbs and her wrists, and Mary’s beautiful eyes got wide with wonder whenever her hands “talked” to me. By the end, she was giving me big hugs and I felt so full of love for her sweet, innocent, imaginative little soul.

Then during Clarissa’s nap I let the kids help me make meatballs, after which I spiralized some zucchini noodles. By the time Abe came home, the kids had eaten, I had cleaned the house, done a bunch of laundry, and felt so happy. Abe had a great day at work too.

It was such a good day that we both tried to make it last longer. I stayed up way too late reading, and Abe read some Hugh Nibley and barbecued chicken for the next day. It was a wonderful, wonderful day.

another movie

After Abe came home from work, we put the kids down and went to see The Incredibles 2 together. I had been wishing Abe were with us when we saw it on Tuesday, and I just knew he could use a couple belly laughs after his stressful week.

Abe did cry with laughter at one point, so we consider the evening a success. 🙂